When I was single and available, there were few ways to meet women. Bars, social groups, sports, church (generally the Metropolitan Community Church), potlucks and being introduced by friends were the ways women usually met. In my world, bars were the most common. There were a few problems with meeting someone in bars: it could get expensive, the women you meet in bars generally like to hang out in bars (I met more than my share of drunks and players this way…), the hours were very late (most nights at the bars did not even start until about 11:30 pm), all there was to do was drink, shoot pool, and dance – talking was impossible because of the loud music –
I met my partner at a TGIF (Thank God It’s Friday) mixer put on by a group of lesbian business women called Bay Area Career Women. It was one of the best ways I found to meet women – though still a bar setting.
Today’s lesbian has a whole new possibility with the advent of the internet. There are now online dating clubs for both straights and gays/lesbians. The biggest one I am aware of and the one with the best reputation is Lesbian Personals. Try it! You might really enjoy this fun, new way to meet eligible women…
